I Am Safe: Helping Children Know What To Do If…

I wish someone would have taken the time to share the information in I Am Safe with me when I was young. As a sexual abuse survivor, please order this book and share this information with all the children you know so we can do everything possible to protect our precious children.
Judy Edinger, Education Training Consultant
REST Ministries, Akron PA
The coloring book, I AM SAFE, has pleasant, cheerful pictures and begins with safety tips children are already comfortable and familiar with, such as fire safety or bike safety. It moves into healthy ways to express the concepts of good touch/bad touch, what to do if an adult gives them a present to keep a bad secret, etc. As a child goes through the book, it presents protective concepts in the same way for abuse as it does for fire safety, helping the child learn without being frightened.
Most importantly, along with the coloring book comes a parent/teacher/advocate companion. This companion book has smaller versions of the same pictures, so an adult can color along with the child, creating a comforting setting rather than a “We need to talk” discussion setting. The adult version has additional information that can be adapted to the child’s age and level of understanding, including statistics, questions to ask, and some great ideas, such as a family password.
I AM SAFE is created for advocacy groups, churches, schools, and homes – appropriate for children in sheltered environments as well as children overcoming past abuse.
Personal Note by Author Kimberly Rae: When I first had kids, if someone told me I should talk with my children at an early age about good touch/bad touch, and rules about what to do if an adult crossed the boundaries into inappropriate behavior, I’d have probably shrunk away and thought that was over-the-top paranoid. Besides, how would I bring up the topic without telling them way more than they needed to hear? Now that I know that 90% of childhood sexual abuse cases occur with someone the child already knows, I don’t assume that strangers are the only danger to my children, and if I keep them from suspicious people, they will be safe. Predators are good at getting adults and children to trust them, and they often target places where they gain access to lots of kids in authority-based environments (such as churches, summer camps, schools, etc.).
I write and train on human trafficking and over the years my research has brought me to what I believe is one of the most important and most overlooked aspects of trafficking – childhood sexual abuse. There is a huge, huge overlap between victims of childhood abuse and victims of childhood and adult exploitation. We might be able to shield the children we love from being targeted on the internet or in the mall, but the fact that child abuse frequently happens by someone the child knows (and often someone the entire family trusts) is terrifying.
Because of this, kids need to be taught when behavior crosses from appropriate and loving to inappropriate and abusive. However, like me, many adults are wary of broaching the topic, unsure of how to present helpful information without over-educating or scaring children. Others just don’t know what to say.
I wanted something conservative parents would feel comfortable sharing with their children. I wanted something I could offer parents, teachers or advocates that would help victims talk about it and overcome, taking away vulnerability to further exploitation in the future.
I can’t express how much I want childhood sexual abuse to stop. How important it is that children are empowered to know that when something is wrong, they have options and what those options are.
For bulk discounts, permission requests, blog reviews, or a sample PDF to review, contact Kimberly Rae at www.kimberlyrae.com.

From the Publisher

Sample Pages

To all kids, and the people who want them protected.

The people who love me want me to be safe. I want to be safe, too.

I wear my seat belt in the car.

I wear my helmet when I ride my bike.

If a stranger comes to my door, I do not open it. I go tell my parents.

The people who love me also want me to be safe from people who do bad things. So I am learning what to do if someone wants to do something bad to me.

If an adult or kid wants me to hurt my body with smoking or drugs, I will say, “No way!” and walk away.

If someone I do not know or trust tells me to get in a car with them, I will run away as fast as I can, yelling for help from the first person I see.

If someone steals or does something bad, and they say if I tell they will do a bad thing to me, that is a threat. It is not right. I will still tell someone I trust.

I respect my body. I am allowed privacy when I change my clothes.

If a stranger sends me a message on a phone or computer, I will show it to my parents.

If anyone tries to give me money or presents to do something bad or keep a bad secret, that is a bribe. I will not take bribes.

I play with all my clothes on even if I am playing doctor. No one is allowed to remove my clothes without my permission.

Someday I might be in a room by myself with only one adult. If I am uncomfortable, I will leave that room right away.

I know that if someone does a bad thing to me, it is not my fault. No matter what they say, I did not do wrong and should not keep it a secret.

The world has lots and lots of good people in it. I will talk to the people I love and trust about what is happening to me and how I feel.

Publisher ‏ : ‎ CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform (July 24, 2015)
Language ‏ : ‎ English
Paperback ‏ : ‎ 28 pages
ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1496035097
ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1496035097
Reading age ‏ : ‎ 7 – 9 years
Grade level ‏ : ‎ 2 – 3
Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 3.35 ounces
Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 8.5 x 0.07 x 11 inches